The leadership way

The leadership lesson you’ll wish you learned sooner

Imagine this: You’ve just landed your first big leadership role. You’re eager, ambitious, and convinced you need to have all the answers. But soon, things start falling apart—relationships are strained, new ideas dry up, and your team stops being honest with you.

Then, a moment of truth hits during a feedback session. A brave team member says, “We don’t feel comfortable sharing our ideas because it seems like you’ve already made up your mind.” Boom. That’s when you realize your need to be the all-knowing leader is pushing people away.

Here’s the game-changer I wish someone had told me earlier: It’s okay to admit when you don’t know something.

Determined to turn things around, you start being more open. You admit when you’re unsure and ask for your team’s input. It’s not about looking weak; it’s about making everyone feel their opinions matter.

The transformation is incredible. People begin sharing their ideas more freely, solutions improve, and teamwork strengthens. You learn that showing vulnerability doesn’t undermine your leadership; it strengthens it. Leadership isn’t about having all the answers; it’s about creating an environment where everyone feels comfortable contributing.

You can always refine processes and strategies, but being open to learning from others and valuing their input is what truly drives success. This is the one piece of advice I wish someone had told me earlier—it would have made a world of difference from the start.